Trapped in a Work Nightmare? How to Survive a Job You Hate (For Now)

Let's face it, jobs aren't always sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes, you find yourself stuck in a position that drains your energy and enthusiasm. But before you hit the eject button, there are strategies to survive (and even maybe thrive) until you find a better fit.

Here's your survival guide for that dreaded job:

1. Identify the Root of the Hate

Is it the workload, the company culture, or a specific coworker? Figuring this out helps you focus your coping mechanisms. Maybe the tasks are mind-numbing; explore opportunities to learn new skills within your role.

2. Shift Your Focus

This job might be a stepping stone, not a destination. Channel your energy into your job search or a fulfilling side hustle. Reframe your perspective – see it as a means to an end, funding your passions or future career goals.

3. Make it Manageable

Can you streamline your workload? Delegate tasks or ask for adjustments. Remember, your health is paramount. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and prioritize your well-being.

4. Find the Good (Yes, Really!)

Is there a positive aspect, a supportive colleague, or a perk you enjoy? Focus on those slivers of light. Maybe you have flexible hours or a good healthcare plan.

5. Fuel Your Passion Outside Work

Don't let your job steal your joy. Dive into hobbies, spend time with loved ones, or volunteer for a cause you care about. Having a fulfilling life outside the office makes the work slog more bearable.

6. Level Up Your Skills

Use this time to become more marketable. Look for online courses, attend industry events, or ask for training opportunities within your company. Invest in yourself, and these new skills will benefit you in your next job.

7. Connect with Your Tribe

Confide in a trusted friend or mentor. Talking it out can be a huge stress reliever. There's a good chance someone else has been there too.

8. Remember, It's Temporary

This might feel like forever, but it's not. Keep your job search active and update your resume. The minute you land a better opportunity, you can walk out with your head held high.

Bonus Tip: Be Professional – Always

Don't let your frustration boil over. Maintain a professional demeanor – it reflects well on you and avoids burning bridges.

Surviving a job you hate isn't easy, but with the right approach, you can. Remember, it's temporary. Use this time to strategize your escape and emerge stronger and more prepared for the fulfilling career you deserve.

Reflecting on How Time Flies: A Journey Through the Last 2 Years

Have you ever paused to realize how swiftly time can slip through our fingers? It feels like just yesterday when we were stepping into the unknowns of 2022, yet here we are, already midway through 2024. The passage of time has a peculiar way of both astounding and sneaking up on us, leaving us to marvel at how much can change in just a blink.

### Time's Fleeting Nature

In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to lose track of time. The routines we follow, the goals we chase, and the challenges we face all contribute to this sense of time slipping away. Two years ago, the world seemed a different place—perhaps less uncertain, more familiar. But with each passing day, as events unfolded, time propelled us forward, often faster than we anticipated.

### Personal Growth and Reflection

Reflecting on the last two years, one cannot ignore the personal growth that accompanies the passage of time. Each day brings new experiences, lessons learned, and opportunities for self-improvement. Whether it's advancing in our careers, deepening relationships, or overcoming personal obstacles, these moments shape us into who we are today.

### Global Changes and Collective Resilience

On a global scale, the last two years have been a testament to humanity's resilience in the face of adversity. From navigating a global pandemic to addressing environmental challenges and societal shifts, our world has undergone profound transformations. These events have not only shaped our present circumstances but have also set the stage for what lies ahead.

### Lessons Learned and Looking Forward

As we reflect on how quickly time has flown, it's essential to glean wisdom from our experiences. The lessons learned—about adaptability, compassion, and the importance of community—serve as guideposts for the future. They remind us to cherish every moment, embrace change, and continue striving towards our aspirations.

### Finding Meaning in the Journey

Ultimately, the fleeting nature of time encourages us to find meaning in the journey itself. It's about appreciating the small victories, learning from setbacks, and savoring the moments of joy and connection. Time may move swiftly, but it is in our power to make each moment count.

### Conclusion: Embracing the Future

As we stand at this juncture, contemplating how swiftly time has passed, let's carry forward the lessons and memories that have shaped us. Let's embrace the future with optimism, knowing that each day presents new opportunities for growth and discovery. Time flies, but it is within our grasp to make the most of every fleeting moment.

In conclusion, as we navigate the ever-changing landscape of life, let's remember to pause, reflect, and appreciate the journey thus far. Time flies, but the impact we leave on our world and those around us endures.

2022... alhamdullilah

Dear 2022,

Alhamdullilah for being one of the best year of my life. It has been quite a journey for me and my wife and my little family. Yes, you read that right. I am now a father for my beautiful daughter, Elisha.

I started to write another blog about my baby since last year until she was born last February. 

There are many things worth mentioning but I guess 2022 has been a great year for all of us.

Alhamdulillah.

Windows 11, are you ready for it?

 Windows 11 was released on October 5, 2021 with less publicity than previous windows. I don't even know about this announcement or I was having this impression that Windows 10 will be the last windows and they will do OS updates to bring latest features, security and etc.

I am comfortably using Windows 10 and no major issues with it especially I use it for playing games. You know how gamers hate every time there is a major OS upgrade, the first question will always be 'Will it improve the game performance especially the frame rate?'. Lol. I can't blame them on this. 

I have my Predator laptop which is eligible for a free upgrade but I didn't bother to upgrade. Why? I like to wait for Windows 11 major patch when they will properly fixed some of the bugs, drivers, and etc. 

If you're someone who doesn't really care or willing to go for the new OS. I would recommend try the in-place upgrade via Windows Update (where you can downgrade to Windows 10 if you're not happy) but in doing so, it will eats your disk space which you may need to consider.

I have another laptop which I recently brought for $100, a HP EliteBook 830 G5 model. I had it clean install with Windows 11. My first impression? Wow but the UI/UX is familiar (if you have been using MacOS you will notice this). So far I have seen improvement in battery consumption which is very low with 'Battery Saver' feature on. I have yet to try most of the features but I am happy with Windows 11.

Are you ready to switch? 

Transition Endomondo to MapMyRun

It is sad to see one of the most reliable Sports app has been retired. I have been using this app since 2011 for running and hiking. It shows more stats than any other app and gradually improved since then. When Endomondo was acquired by Under Armour in 2015, I was very excited to see where this will lead to. More devices and applications were integrated for Endomondo. 

Eventually, Under Armour decided to retire this awesome app and lead everyone to use MapMyRun (which is another app acquired by UA). I dislike the idea. This is the second time I experienced to let go of my favourite app, the first one was Sportypal. 

UA makes thing seemless for people to switch from Endomondo to MayMyRun (with discounts for subscriptions and imported historical data from Endomondo to MayMyRun). I was at first very disappointed with the MayMyrRun app but eventually decided to just give this app a chance. I am sure, most of the people don't have any choice but to actually just move on with this app. As long as I can see my historical data and other devices/apps (Relive) integration are still there. I'm happy.

So what are your thoughts? I hope Under Armour don't mess this app again!